Ask Your Queer Auntie

Your Queer Auntie is a dominant, maternal disciplinarian, and queer NB femme with 30 years of kink experience. They are now taking questions for an advice column in the SLAP newsletter. Responses will be published online and eventually collected on paper in a zine. Please don't use your own or anyone else's real name or identifying details. Feel free to make up a cute advice column style sign-off for yourself.

Here you can find a repository of all of the questions Queer Auntie has answered!

Have a burning question yourself?

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